Receiving Support and Help from a Trustworthy Nobleman
Getting the right moment to ask and receive help from your trustworthy nobleman
Nobleman is -loosely translated- someone that comes into your life that could have helped you to grow and improve your life by giving you the right advice, inspiration, and guidance. The main point of meeting the Nobleman Star is, you should be well prepared before the person come. Thus, timing is crucial.
The Nobleman might not see himself as The Nobleman to you. A nobleman is not always someone that is ‘good’. Good is relative so we want to avoid using the word too much.
As a person (that in need of help of any kind), waiting for the Nobleman to come and rescue you is more-less ingrained in your mind. It feels normal that people come to your way and help you with their resources. Be aware! This kind of mindset is only half true.
Let’s think about it this way. If people have no idea that you indeed need help, they will not lend their hands to you. Therefore, it is totally fine to reach out and ask for help. Here’s the tricky part. How do you ask someone so that they are eager to lend their hands to you?
First Comes Awareness
Within our Date of Birth, there is such information for us to decipher and find out who might be our Nobleman. Once you figure out who is your Nobleman, then you could devise a plan to approach that person.
The Nobleman Star takes shape of an Animal Sign. So, figuratively, when you see someone is having this Animal Sign, there is a high possibility this person might become your Nobleman.
As you can see from the table, to determine someone’s Nobleman Stars, all you need to do is paring up the Day Heavenly Stem with the Animal Sign (Heavenly Branch). The pairing is fixed. Therefore, you could use this table as a reference and use it again and again.
You can keep the table for now. I will explain how you could use this table in the next article.
1. Spot the Right Timing and Take Action
The year 2020 is a Metal Rat 庚子 year. The Animal Sign is Rat 子. Let’s look back to the table above. Rat 子 is the Nobleman Star for Yi 乙 Yin Wood and Ji 己 Yin Earth. Therefore, this year is the Nobleman Year for Yi 乙 and Ji 己.
This Nobleman Star is being activated for you the whole year 2020. Don’t you think it’s very convenient? In your opinion, what should you do if this year the Nobleman Star is automatically activated for you? Let’s think about it for a second.
2. Here some ideas…
Learn new knowledge and skills, gather a team to support you on the business or work, expand your social circle, attending webinars or classes that is practical and inspiring, and reconnecting with your friends or join a community.
Some preparations before going to the battle!
1. Prepare yourself beforehand and make sure you have some real value or skill.
When you are looking for someone to help and support you, that person must have been gone through certain experiences that you want and need for your growth. Usually, you will need premium access to meet them. What I mean here is simply, their time and energy are valuable and quite limited. Therefore, you should come fully prepared.
2. The Giving Mindset.
The law of the Universe is quite simple. When you give something, genuine value, and intention, you will receive it. The main problem is most people are afraid to give something because then people will take advantage of it and in the end you receive nothing. If you think about it when other people don’t know your skills and knowledge (for example) how do people know that you are valuable in the first place?
It is also telling you that it might be that you are attracting the wrong people for what it is that you are offering, whether it’s products or services.
3. When you meet your Nobleman…
Offer your value to them. Ask them nicely whether you could support him/her team, whether you could learn from him on the process. Don’t boss him/her around that they need to be your Nobleman and help you.
Remember, you need them. Not the other way around.
But this also doesn’t mean that you should lower yourself when asking him/her. It would be so much better that you understand your position and remember that if you have valuable skills that are quite rare but practical and in dire need these days, you might stand a better chance in negotiating with your Nobleman.
If they see in you something they want and need currently, you might be able to support him/her and in return, you might get whatever it is that you seek from your Nobleman.
Nobleman is making quite a strong mark in the everyday life of Chinese culture. Whatever it is that you are trying to achieve, if you’re being backed up by a Nobleman in your life, you could achieve things that otherwise difficult.
A major misconception that people perceive is a Nobleman must be a good person. They are nice, great personalities, and smooth communication skills. You know what, some people need the ‘Bad Nobleman’ to be shaken up. Also, just like I said previously, ‘Good’ and ‘Bad’ are quite relative.
If you like this topic, don’t miss out on my next article regarding this Nobleman topic. I will share how you could actively hunt your Nobleman Star. Next time, when a person comes to you, you would be able to check whether they are your Nobleman or not.
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